Before a journey starts, there is usually a decided destination in mind. Most often, there is a mapped out plan of direction to take to arrive safely at the desired place. It is important that we view the journey to finding our voice the same way. A certain amount of anticipation for the unexpected bumps in the road should go with us. As we journey towards discovering our voice, we need to prepare for the shocking discoveries that are destined to arise.
In preparation for the search for my biological Mother and family, I took the time to make sure that I was as emotionally ready for the things that I would uncover, both good and bad, as I possibly could be. Although I attempted to equip myself as much as possible, there is no way total readiness is attainable. There will always be the possibility for being caught off guard by something or someone along the way.
Although the journey may have bumps, it has possibilities for good surprises as well. We are on a voyage and should approach this sojourn with an optimistic outlook. Preparation does not equate to disaster, it should be viewed more like a safety net. Our everyday lives can be unpredictable, and the same is true with the journey to our true voices…
KimberlyLCarter 